Sent

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Every Sunday service tends to end the same way. The music fades. The final prayer is offered. A blessing is spoken. People gather their things, hug a few friends, make lunch plans, and head toward the parking lot.

For many of us, it feels like the service is over. But what if it’s just beginning?

The word mission comes from a Latin word that simply means “to send.” At its heart, mission isn’t about committees or strategic plans or overseas travel, important as those things can be.

Mission is about living as people who have been sent. Sent into neighborhoods. Sent into schools. Sent into workplaces. Sent into hospitals. Sent into coffee shops. Sent into grocery store checkout lines. Sent into a world desperately hungry for hope.

I’ve come to believe that one of the greatest misunderstandings of Christianity is the idea that church is the destination. It isn’t.

It’s the gathering place. The filling station. The family meal before we return to the work of loving the world.

Jesus never invited people to stay on the mountain. Again and again, he sent them back into towns and villages carrying good news. Not merely with words, but with lives transformed by grace.

Sometimes I think we’ve imagined mission as convincing people to come where we are. Jesus seemed more interested in teaching his followers to go where people already were. To walk dusty roads. To enter unfamiliar homes. To share ordinary meals. To listen before speaking. To heal before explaining. To love before expecting anything in return.

That feels important today. We’re living in a time when trust in institutions, including churches, has been steadily declining. Many people aren’t looking for another organization asking for their loyalty. They’re looking for authentic people whose lives reflect kindness, humility, compassion, and hope.

Perhaps our greatest witness isn’t having all the right answers. Perhaps it’s becoming the kind of people others can imagine trusting.

John Wesley famously reminded his followers that “the world is my parish.” It was a radical statement in the eighteenth century. It remains one today.

Wesley refused to believe that ministry was confined within church walls. He preached in fields. He visited prisons. He organized schools. He cared for the poor. He advocated for better health. He opposed slavery. He understood that grace always has public consequences.

Love of God naturally overflows into love of neighbor. That’s still our calling.

Mission isn’t about escaping the world. It’s about loving it. It’s standing beside people who are suffering. It’s working for justice when systems leave people behind. It’s protecting the dignity of every person because every person bears the image of God. It’s caring for creation because the earth is God’s gift. It’s welcoming strangers because we remember that we were once strangers, too. It’s believing that no one is disposable.

The world doesn’t need Christians who are louder. It needs Christians who are more deeply rooted in love. People whose convictions make them more compassionate, not less. More curious, not more fearful. More generous, not more guarded. More willing to build bridges than walls.

Jesus put it simply. “You are the light of the world.”

Light doesn’t argue with darkness. It shines. Quietly. Faithfully. Consistently.

Perhaps that’s what being sent looks like. Not trying to become extraordinary. Simply choosing, every day, to reflect the love we’ve already received. Offering forgiveness where resentment would be easier. Choosing generosity when scarcity whispers otherwise. Standing with those who have been pushed aside. Listening to stories unlike our own. Extending grace one conversation at a time.

None of these things will make headlines. Most of them won’t even be noticed. But perhaps that’s how the kingdom of God has always grown. Like seeds. Like yeast. Like light. Slowly. Patiently. Almost imperceptibly. Until one day the world is different because ordinary people kept choosing love.

Every Sunday, the church gathers. Not to escape the world. But to remember who we are…Children of God. Neighbors to one another. Bearers of grace. Builders of bigger tables.

Then, with a blessing ringing in our ears, we leave. Not because worship has ended, but because worship has taken on flesh.

Maybe that’s why I love the benediction so much. A benediction isn’t a conclusion. It’s a commissioning. It’s God’s gentle reminder that the holiest moments of our week may not happen in the sanctuary at all. They may happen in a conversation with a lonely coworker. A meal shared with a neighbor. A letter written to someone who is hurting. A vote cast for the common good. A hand extended to someone who has been told there is no place for them.

The church gathers so that the church can scatter. We come home. We discover we belong. We learn to build bigger tables.

Then we are sent into the world…not to conquer it, not to fear it, but to love it.

And perhaps that has been God’s mission all along. To send ordinary people into ordinary places carrying an extraordinary grace. One life. One neighborhood. One act of love at a time.

Building a Bigger Table

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I’ve been thinking a lot lately about home. About belonging. About the places and people that remind us who we are.

The more I think about it, the more convinced I become that ministry isn’t really about churches. It’s about helping people come home.

Not necessarily to a building. Not even to a denomination. But to themselves. To one another. To God.

When I was younger, I thought ministry was mostly about preaching good sermons, leading meaningful worship, offering pastoral care, and helping a church grow. Those things certainly matter. They remain sacred work.

But the longer I’ve served as a pastor, the more I believe ministry is something much simpler and much harder. It’s paying attention. It’s noticing who is standing alone after worship. It’s remembering someone’s name. It’s making one more phone call than your calendar says you have time for. It’s asking a question and then listening long enough to hear the real answer. It’s refusing to let anyone become invisible.

I’ve come to believe that the opposite of ministry isn’t inactivity. It’s indifference.

One of the most striking things about Jesus is not simply that he loved people. It’s that he noticed them…The woman who had spent years suffering quietly…The blind man everyone else tried to silence…The tax collector hiding in a tree…The children the disciples considered interruptions…The Samaritan woman everyone else walked past.

Again and again, Jesus saw the people others overlooked. Perhaps that’s where ministry begins. Not with programs, but with attention.

Our culture often tells us that bigger is always better. More followers. More influence. More success. More productivity.

But the kingdom of God seems to move differently. One conversation. One meal. One act of compassion. One relationship at a time.

That doesn’t mean numbers don’t matter. Every number represents a person. Every person has a story. Every story bears the image of God.

But ministry was never meant to be about collecting people. It’s about caring for them.

As United Methodists, we often describe ourselves as people who are making disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world. Sometimes we hear that mission and immediately think globally. Changing systems. Ending injustice. Building a better society.

We should be committed to that work.  The gospel has public consequences. Faith that never leaves the sanctuary isn’t much like the faith Jesus lived.

But transformation almost always begins personally. It begins when someone who has felt forgotten realizes they have been seen. When someone carrying shame discovers grace. When someone convinced they are alone discovers community. When someone searching for home finds a people who say, “We’re glad you’re here.”

That’s ministry. Not because pastors make it happen. But because the whole church does.

One of my favorite words in the New Testament is hospitality. The Greek word, philoxenia, literally means “love of the stranger” and “friend of the stranger.” Not tolerance. Not obligation. Love.

I wonder what would happen if Christians became known for that again. Not for winning arguments. Not for drawing sharper lines. Not for protecting institutions.

But for loving strangers until they became friends. And friends until they became family.

Perhaps that’s what the church is supposed to be. A community where nobody has to earn a seat at the table. Where questions are welcomed. Where differences are not erased but honored. Where justice and mercy embrace. Where grace is practiced instead of merely preached.

I’ve become convinced that every church is building something. Some build walls. Some build stages. Some build reputations.

I hope we’re building tables. Long tables. Messy tables. Diverse tables. Tables with enough empty chairs that no one wonders whether there’s room for them.

Because every empty chair quietly says, “We’re expecting someone.”

Maybe that’s what ministry has always been. Preparing places for people we haven’t met yet. Living in such a way that another person catches a glimpse of God’s welcome. Creating communities where home is possible and belonging is real.

The beautiful thing is that none of us has to be ordained to do that. Parents do it around kitchen tables. Teachers do it in classrooms. Neighbors do it across fences. Friends do it over coffee. Children do it on playgrounds. Retirees do it through handwritten notes.

Every act of kindness becomes an act of ministry. Every moment of compassion becomes a glimpse of the kingdom of God. And every time we widen the circle just a little more, we participate in the work Jesus began long ago.

The world doesn’t simply need bigger churches. It needs bigger tables. Places where every person can discover what so many of us have spent our lives searching for: A place to belong. A place to breathe. A place to be loved. A place to call home.

You Belong Here

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I wonder if one of the deepest human needs isn’t happiness…Or success…Or even love.

I wonder if it’s belonging.

Long before we ask, “am I successful?” or “am I enough?” we ask a quieter question: “Is there a place for me?”

It’s a question children ask on the playground. Teenagers ask in school hallways. Adults ask in boardrooms, churches, neighborhoods, and around dinner tables.

It’s the question behind nearly every insecurity. Will they accept me? Will they understand me? If they really knew me, would they still want me here?

The truth is…most of us spend an extraordinary amount of energy trying to earn belonging. We perform. We edit ourselves. We hide the parts of our story we fear others won’t understand. We laugh when everyone else laughs. We stay quiet when our opinions might make us stand out. We slowly become strangers to ourselves in hopes of being accepted by someone else.

But acceptance isn’t the same thing as belonging. 

Acceptance often comes with conditions. You can stay…as long as…

Belonging says something altogether different. Come as you are.

One of the things that continually draws me to Jesus is how often he created belonging before anything else. Long before people changed their lives, Jesus shared meals with them. Long before they had their theology figured out, he invited them to walk beside him. Long before society deemed them worthy, Jesus looked them in the eye and called them by name. Tax collectors…Women…Foreigners…People living with illness…People everyone else had written off.

The religious establishment frequently asked, “Why does he welcome those people?”

Jesus never seemed particularly interested in answering that question. He just kept making the circle wider.

That’s the image I can’t shake. Not a fortress protecting who’s in, but a table with leaves added because more guests keep arriving.

As United Methodists, we often speak about God’s grace before we speak about anything else. John Wesley called it prevenient grace, the grace of God that is already at work before we ever recognize it. Before we believe. Before we understand. Before we clean ourselves up. Before we even think to seek God…God is already seeking us.

I find that breathtaking. It means belonging begins with God, not with us. We don’t earn our place in God’s family. We discover that we’ve been invited all along.

Of course, churches don’t always reflect that reality. Sometimes we’ve confused holiness with gatekeeping. Sometimes we’ve mistaken uniformity for unity. Sometimes we’ve communicated, intentionally or unintentionally, that certain people belong more than others.

History gives us plenty of examples. People of different races. Women called to lead. Divorced people. People asking honest questions. Members of the LGBTQ+ community. People with disabilities. People struggling with addiction. People whose politics don’t mirror our own. People carrying doubts instead of certainty. The list goes on.

The church has too often acted as though belonging were a prize awarded after someone meets the requirements. Jesus seemed to reverse the order. Belong first. Grow together. Be transformed through love.

I don’t think inclusion is about lowering standards. I think it’s about remembering whose table it is…It’s Christ’s. And Christ has always had a habit of pulling up another chair.

One of my favorite images of the church isn’t an institution or a building. It’s a family meal.

Not because families are perfect…far from it. But because at our best, families make room. They learn one another’s stories. They celebrate victories. They sit through grief. They disagree. They forgive. They keep showing up.

Real belonging doesn’t erase differences. It teaches us to love across them.

Maybe that’s why the Apostle Paul described the church as a body instead of a collection of identical parts. Different gifts. Different experiences. Different perspectives. One Spirit. One purpose. One love.

Imagine if churches became known less for the people they excluded and more for the people who finally felt like they could breathe. Imagine if someone walked through the doors carrying shame and left carrying hope. Imagine if questions were welcomed instead of feared. Imagine if diversity wasn’t tolerated but celebrated as evidence of God’s wonderfully creative imagination. Imagine if everyone who entered heard, not merely with words but with actions: “We’re really glad you’re here.”

I think people are starving for that. Not because they want a church that tells them whatever they want to hear. But because they long for a community where they can tell the truth about who they are…Where grace is more than a slogan…Where love is more than an idea…Where belonging is not the finish line…It’s the starting place.

Perhaps that’s what heaven has been preparing us to practice all along. Not deciding who belongs. But discovering that God’s welcome has always been wider than our imagination.

Maybe that’s the good news we need in a world that keeps drawing lines. God keeps setting a bigger table. And there is still room.

Home Is More Than An Address

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There’s an old saying: Home is where your heart is.

I’ve always liked that phrase, though I’m not sure I’ve ever fully believed it. Or maybe I’ve spent most of my life trying to figure out exactly what it means.

I do believe that almost any place can become home. At the same time, I think there is something profoundly beautiful about having a literal place that feels like it has wrapped its arms around you…a place where your shoulders relax the moment you arrive, where the air somehow feels familiar, where you don’t have to perform or prove anything. You’re simply…home.

When that sense of home is absent, whether physically or emotionally, it can leave an ache that’s difficult to describe.

As a clergy family in the United Methodist itinerant system, “home” has always been a complicated concept. For generations, Methodist pastors have understood that they may be appointed to a new congregation annually. Our roots are often planted in soil we know may not be permanent.

I’ve never lived in the town where I was born. I no longer have family in the city where I was raised. Over the years, we’ve packed boxes, unpacked boxes, learned new streets, met new neighbors, found new grocery stores, and discovered new favorite restaurants. We’ve said countless hellos and more goodbyes than we’d have chosen.

Ironically, we’ve now lived in Fort Wayne longer than we’ve lived anywhere else.

And yet…I sometimes wonder if this place feels like home for my family. I wonder if my children will someday think of this city as the place they came from. I wonder if my wife has found the rootedness that every person longs for. Truthfully, I’m not sure it has ever quite felt like home to me.

That realization has caused me to ask a deeper question. If home isn’t simply a place, then what is it?

Psychologists have long studied something called place attachment…the emotional bond people develop with particular places. It’s fascinating because the research consistently shows that the strongest attachment isn’t usually about architecture, geography, or even beauty. It’s about meaning.

Places become home because of the stories they hold. The relationships they nurture. The memories they preserve. The version of ourselves they allow us to become.

Perhaps that’s why there are places scattered across my life that immediately awaken something deep within me.

The Heorot Pub in Muncie. The shores of our Methodist camps around Lake Webster. Beaver Dam. The Menke Compound. Silver Bay on Lake George. Brown County.

Each is different. I’ve not lived at some of these places. None contains all of my life’s memories.

Yet each carries a familiar feeling. When I’m there, something inside me exhales. The noise quiets. My soul settles. I become more fully myself.

Those places remind me that home may have less to do with ownership than belonging. Less to do with permanence than presence. Less to do with geography than grace.

Researchers who study belonging have discovered something equally important: our well-being depends not simply on having a house, but on having people with whom we feel accepted. We need relationships where we can be known without fear of rejection. We need communities where our presence matters and our absence is noticed. We need places where we don’t have to earn our worth because it has already been recognized.

Maybe that’s why loneliness feels so disorienting. You can live in the same house for thirty years and never quite feel at home if you don’t experience genuine connection. Conversely, you can spend a weekend somewhere surrounded by people who know and love you and leave feeling like you’ve been home all along.

Home is where we are welcomed. Home is where we are remembered. Home is where we can finally stop pretending.

As a pastor, I wonder if this is one of the church’s greatest callings. Long before we’re called to solve every problem or answer every theological question, perhaps we’re called to create home. A place where strangers become neighbors. Where neighbors become family. Where people who have spent years believing they don’t belong discover that there has always been a place waiting for them.

The Scriptures begin in a garden and end in a city where God dwells with humanity. In between is the story of a people constantly searching for home…wandering in deserts, living in exile, longing for promised land, yearning for return.

Maybe that’s because the deepest human longing isn’t simply for a destination. It’s for belonging.

Ultimately, I think our hearts are searching for the place where we are fully known, fully loved, and fully at peace.

Christians believe that longing finds its fulfillment in God.

St. Augustine famously wrote, “Our hearts are restless until they rest in you.”

Perhaps that’s why some places feel holy. They remind us, if only for a moment, of the home for which our souls were made.

Until then, I hope we keep creating homes wherever we can, not merely houses with walls and roofs, but communities of kindness, tables of welcome, friendships of trust, and spaces where people can breathe a little easier because they know they belong.

Because maybe home isn’t ultimately where your heart is. Maybe home is wherever your heart finally finds rest.

Assuming the Worst: How Our Imaginations Can Become Ministry’s Biggest Roadblock

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Have you ever noticed that our imaginations are incredibly creative…especially when we’re filling in information we don’t actually have?

The pastor says, “I think we should change the font in the bulletin.”

Within fifteen minutes, the church rumor mill has translated that into: “We’re getting rid of the bulletin…Traditional worship is over…Next thing you know there will be LED lights, fog machines, laser beams, and the pastor will be preaching in skinny jeans while someone plays electric guitar from the balcony.”

All because…someone suggested a different font.

Now, before we laugh too hard, we’ve all done it. We hear one sentence, fill in the blanks with our own fears, and convince ourselves that our version of the story is the truth.

As Lorelai says to Emily in Gilmore Girls:
Lorelai: “You know what they say when people assume things.”
Emily: “No, what do they say?”
Lorelai: “That…you shouldn’t.”
Emily: “Very clever.”

Emily may have had the last word, but Lorelai wasn’t wrong. And, I’m pretty sure my regular readers are fully aware of what they really say about people who assume things…

To be fair, assumptions are part of being human. They’re actually one of the brain’s shortcuts.

You assume the stove is hot because you’ve been burned before. You assume traffic will be heavy on Friday afternoon. You assume you should probably not pet the bear.

These kinds of assumptions keep us alive. Psychologists call these mental shortcuts or heuristics. Our brains constantly make quick predictions based on previous experience because it saves time and energy.

That’s a gift. Until it isn’t. Because the same brain that helps us avoid touching a hot stove also has another tendency…It often expects the worst.

Researchers have long observed what psychologists call the negativity bias. Our brains naturally pay more attention to threats, bad news, and potential problems than to positive possibilities.

Thousands of years ago, this was helpful. The person who assumed the rustling in the bushes might be a predator generally lived longer than the person who assumed it was a bunny.

But today? That same wiring can wreak havoc in relationships, workplaces, families…and yes, churches.

Instead of asking, “I wonder what they meant?” our brains often jump to, “I know exactly what they meant.” And usually, it’s the least charitable interpretation possible.

Churches are full of wonderful people. Churches are also full of humans. Which means we’re just as susceptible to assumptions as anyone else.

Attendance declines for a season. Instead of asking, “Could God be inviting us to rethink how we make disciples?” we assume, “Well, I guess we’re closing by Christmas.”

Someone proposes a new ministry. Instead of wondering, “Who might this reach?” we assume, “Nobody will come.”

A staff member makes one change. Instead of asking why…we write the rest of the story ourselves and assume they just don’t care about us.

The amazing thing is how often our assumptions escalate. One tiny fact becomes an entire fictional Netflix series.

Here’s the thing about assumptions: They usually aren’t rooted in facts. They’re rooted in fear.

Fear fills empty spaces with worst-case scenarios. Fear whispers: “They’re trying to change everything…They don’t care anymore…Why didn’t they ask me…This ministry will never work…I’m probably not welcome.”

Fear is an incredibly gifted storyteller. The only problem? It’s often a terrible fact-checker.

This may be the most dangerous part. Sometimes assumptions don’t stay inside our own heads. They become conversations.
“Well, I heard…I bet what’s happening is…I’m sure they’re planning to…”

Before long, we’re discussing stories that nobody has actually verified. We aren’t spreading facts. We’re spreading guesses. And guesses have a remarkable ability to create unnecessary conflict.

James reminds us to be “quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.” It’s hard to do that when we’ve already convinced ourselves we know the ending.

Assumptions don’t just create conflict. They rob us.

We assume someone is unfriendly…when they’re actually shy.

We assume someone isn’t interested…when they’re simply waiting to be invited.

We assume a Bible study will be boring…and miss the conversation that could change our lives.

We assume the service project isn’t for us…and miss discovering a passion we never knew we had.

We assume a new person “probably wants to be left alone”…and they leave wondering why nobody spoke to them.

How many friendships have never started because someone assumed the other person wasn’t interested? How many ministries never gained momentum because people assumed they wouldn’t matter? How many possibilities has God placed before us that we’ve walked right past because we assumed the outcome before taking the first step?

One of the remarkable things about Jesus is how often He asked questions. He certainly knew people’s hearts. Yet He still invited conversation.

“What are you looking for?”
“What do you want me to do for you?”
“Who do you say that I am?”

Questions create connection. Assumptions create distance.

Questions invite understanding. Assumptions write someone else’s story for them.

So, here are some suggestions to help us in the area of assumptions…

Pause Before You Fill in the Blanks: When you notice yourself writing a story in your head, stop. Ask yourself: “Do I actually know this…or am I making it up?” Those are two very different things.

Ask Before You Assume: Most misunderstandings could disappear with one simple sentence: “Can you help me understand?” Curiosity is almost always healthier than certainty.

Choose the Most Generous Explanation: What if, instead of assuming bad motives, we assumed good intentions? Not because people are perfect. But because grace begins by giving one another the benefit of the doubt.

That one shift alone could transform marriages, friendships, church meetings, committee conversations, and social media comment sections. (Okay…maybe not social media. But it’s worth trying.)

Imagine a church where people asked questions instead of assuming motives. Where curiosity replaced suspicion. Where conversations replaced rumors. Where hope replaced fear. Where every new idea wasn’t viewed as a threat but as a chance to wonder: “Could God be doing something new among us?”

Isaiah reminds us that God says, “See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?”

Sometimes we don’t perceive it because we’ve already assumed it can’t be true.

Perhaps one of the greatest spiritual disciplines we can practice isn’t having all the answers. Perhaps it’s refusing to invent answers we don’t have.

The next time your imagination starts racing because someone changed the bulletin font…Take a breath. Ask a question. Assume the best until you have a reason not to.

You just might discover that what looked like a crisis was actually an invitation. And what you assumed was the end of the story…was really just the beginning.