Love is a Mix Tape: Believe

This message was shared at Centerville United Methodist Church in Centerville, IN on Sunday, June 28, 2015.

This has been a whirlwind week in our nation! We saw the decisions from the Supreme Court affirming the Affordable Care Act- signifying that all people should have access to health care…which, by the way, is something strongly advocated for by the United Methodist Church. Then, the Supreme Court made a vote on marriage equality. Bishop Coyner wrote an article this week in response to this ruling saying that United Methodist should be advocates of fairness for all.

While I know some of you are upset by the ruling, I’ll remind you that the Supreme Court ruling does not mandate or require churches or pastors to perform any weddings.

Then, on Friday, President Obama delivered a powerful eulogy for Reverend Clementa Pinckney focused on grace at all times.

We may not agree with the Supreme Court rulings. We may not “like” President Obama. However, as Christians, we are called to set aside our political agendas and respond with love and grace. John Wesley, founding father of the Methodist movement, encouraged us to do no harm. Let me ask, are we doing no harm as individuals and the Church in regard to our LGBT sisters and brothers? Are we extending love and grace in our words, actions and Facebook posts? We all need to remember, we can see what others post and like on Facebook. I’m afraid that a lot of what I’ve seen from my Christian brothers and sisters this week has been laced with judgment and hate, rather than love and grace.

In the midst of this environment, I’ve been working on a sermon for our “Love is a Mix Tape” series focusing on doubt, questions, love and grace. Here in our midst, we have people on different sides of the affordable care debate, we have people on different sides of the marriage debate, we have people on different sides of the political debates and some are probably upset that I’ve mentioned President Obama; we have people on different sides of the Jesus debate. For some of us, we question the faith of those who have a different point of view on these issues (how can she be a Christian and believe that?). It seems appropriate that, this Wednesday at 10am in our “Making Sense of the Bible” study, we’ll be talking about issues of human sexuality.

So, in the midst of this environment, we have with us this morning some gathered who are firmly grounded in their faith. This morning, there are some who are searching and seeking, doubting and questioning, struggling or have thrown in the towel on faith. Some of us don’t really know if we believe.

If we are human, there are times we will experience doubts, there are times we will have questions. In some Christian circles, doubts and questions are discouraged and seen as a threat. Me, I think doubts and questions can be great tools…in fact, they could be vessels of grace and mercy. This is called faith, not absolute certainty.

When I was serving as a youth pastor, I used to love entertaining questions from students: Could God make a burrito so BIG even He couldn’t finish it? Could God make a rock so HEAVY that even He couldn’t lift it? They weren’t serious questions. Yet, they ushered in conversations about the nature of God.

The band Mumford and Sons, have a song on their latest album called “Believe”. The lyrics say, ‘I don’t even know if I believe anything you’re trying to say to me. So open up my eyes, tell me I’m alive.” This morning, wherever we are on our journey of faith, whether we are firmly grounded and “standing on the promises” or whether we are doubting the state of our salvation or question our faith, maybe our prayer should be that God would open up our eyes and remind us that we are alive!

Doubts and questions are not the enemy of faith. Doubts and questions can actually lead to a deeper faith. Again, maybe in the midst of our questions and doubts, we should pray, asking God to open our eyes.

Christian author Philip Yancey wrote that, “Inquisitiveness and questioning are inevitable parts of the life of faith.  Where there is certainty there is no room for faith.  I encourage people not to doubt alone, rather to find some people who are safe “doubt companions,” and also to doubt their doubts as much as their faith.  But it doesn’t help simply to deny doubts or to feel guilty about them.  Many people, after all, have been down that path before and have emerged with a strong faith.”

When it comes to our faith, we tend to doubt in three general ways: We doubt ourselves, we doubt others, and we doubt God.

We doubt ourselves and our salvation- We look in the mirror and see ourselves as we are and so we wonder “am I really saved? Am I really a Christian? How can it be? I am a horrible wretched sinner – yet God extends grace and love. Is my faith real? I thought I was saved, but I’m not perfect? So, was my profession of faith a lie? Was my salvation just self-deception?” We’re not alone in this…John Wesley, in light of his humanity, would question the state of his salvation. He, like we sometimes are prone to, struggled with and worried about the state of his salvation. Yet, in the midst of our doubt, God extends grace and love.

We doubt others and their salvation- We look at other “Christians” and because of their politics, because of their lifestyle, because of their education or socio-economic class we wonder if they are really Christian. Or we question their stories. We question and doubt their experience of God. If they don’t worship like us, if they don’t believe like us, if they don’t vote like us, then they aren’t truly Christian. We doubt entire congregations and denominations because of differences of theology, politics, and opinions. I’m guilty of this- I look at statements from Franklin Graham and John Piper and Pat Robertson and say, “Those nut-jobs don’t speak for me!” That’s not love and grace, is it? We doubt and question others when we, as Christians, say, “I love God, but that person is scum. What that really says is we are the ones in danger of not being Christian because, as Jesus would challenge the religious folks of his day, you can’t love God and hate your neighbor. Yet, in the midst of our doubt, God extends grace and love.

We doubt God- One of the most common questions we have is “why God”? “Why did God allow this to happen? Why is God punishing me? Why did my co-worker get the promotion and I got a flat tire?” Or, in those times of doubt we’ll question whether or not God took his grace away. We’ll question the process of salvation- “so, God just gifts us with love and grace and my response is to accept it? I don’t have to earn it?” Yet, in the midst of our doubt, God extends grace and love.

The good news is that this is not the end of the journey. Doubts, questions, and uncertainty are not the end of the story.  God’s love and grace is always being offered to us…if we need assurance, God will give it to us…We just have to pay attention, to listen for God, to look for God, and when it comes, respond to God.

Our salvation is an ongoing process- it’s not a pray a prayer and we’re done- we are continually offered love and grace and given opportunities to respond to love and grace by loving God and loving neighbor. In response to God’s love and grace, we are to extend love and grace – to become vehicles of God’s love and grace.

And, yet, even when we find that blessed assurance, we sometimes doubt and question. Don’t worry…we are not alone. John the Baptist had moments of doubt and questions, as we heard in the passage from Matthew 11:1-7. This is the dude that baptized Jesus and told others, “Here’s the one you’ve been waiting for”, due to life’s circumstances began to wonder, “So, are you really the one?”

Mark 9:14-24– “Yes, I believe…help me with my unbelief.” He was desperate to believe. He was convinced he believed. And, yet, he was aware of the struggle. This passage is often used to support the “believe and receive”, prosperity Gospel of –” if you just have enough faith, God will bless you”. Listen, sometimes we believe and we don’t receive according to our expectations. The danger in this proclamation of “believe and receive” is that we are prone to doubt or reject our faith when we don’t receive.

When we waiver, when we struggle with certainty, we’re not alone…John the Baptist…the man who said I believe, but still could feel a bit of doubt (help me with my unbelief)…Wesley…We’re not alone in our uncertainty, our doubt, our questions.

We may question, doubt, or refuse it- but God never stops extending love and grace to us. Then, where love and grace is offered, we have to respond…we respond by growing in holiness…by loving God in a way that manifests itself in loving neighbor.

We should concern ourselves with striving towards perfection – even in doubt- because the act of striving towards Christian perfection (“are you going onto perfection”) – is transforming. Striving towards perfection, as a response to God’s constant offering of love and grace, can transform our doubts and questions.

President Obama spoke about God’s continual offering of grace and our need to respond to that grace during his eulogy for Reverend Clementa Pinckney – “The Bible calls us to hope. To persevere, and have faith in things not seen”

In speaking about Pinckney he stated, “He embodied the idea that our Christian faith demands deeds and not just words; that the ‘sweet hour of prayer’ actually lasts the whole week long – that to put our faith in action is more than individual salvation; it’s about our collective salvation; that to feed the hungry and clothe the naked and house the homeless is not just a call for isolated charity but the imperative of a just society.”

On his reflections on grace, Our President Obama said, “According to our Christian tradition, grace is not earned. Grace is not merited. It’s not something we deserve. Rather, grace is the free and benevolent favor of God – as manifested in the salvation of sinners and the bestowal of blessings. God has visited grace upon us, for he has allowed us to see where we’ve been blind. He has given us the chance, where we’ve been lost, to find our best selves. We may not have earned it, this grace, with our rancor and complacency, and short-sightedness and fear of each other – but we got it all the same. He gave it to us anyway. He’s once more given us grace. But it is up to us to make the most of it, to receive it with gratitude, and to prove ourselves worthy of this gift. We don’t earn grace. We’re all sinners. We don’t deserve it. But God gives it to us anyway. And we choose how to receive it. It’s our decision how to honor it.”

Doubt and questions are not the enemy of faith. Fear might be an enemy. Rejecting God’s love and grace might be an enemy. Failing to respond to God’s love and grace might be an enemy.

President Obama, much like John Wesley and Jesus and Peter and Paul, urges us to respond to God’s grace. God is continually offering us love and grace. When we encounter doubt and questions, the best way to respond is to accept God’s love and grace and strive towards holiness, to strive towards perfection – that in our pursuit of holiness we will encounter God, that we will receive that blessed assurance, and learn to live lives of faith where we truly love God and love our neighbor.

In the midst of faith, in the midst of doubt, in the midst of rejection, God continually offers His love and grace. We should respond to that love and grace by accepting that love and grace, and then extending that love and grace to all.


One thought on “Love is a Mix Tape: Believe

  1. Fine and brave message! My thoughts and prayers are with you, your church, and the church universal. I stand for a church open to ALL people and with Reconciling Ministries Network within the Methodist Church. Time will tell how the church will move forward. Blessings, Jason! Your friend from CUMC Lafayette and also at St Marks UM Church , here in Bloomington. IN, my new home.

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